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Practical wisdom, faith-filled insights, and real-world relationship advice for couples at every stage. Our blog offers practical tools and Catholic perspectives to help you love smarter. Explore topics including communication, fertility, forgiveness, spirituality, parenting, and more — authored by Francine & Byron Pirola and other guest contributers.

Lessons from Mr and Mrs Smith

By Francine & Byron Pirola | September 30, 2016

Earlier this week the news reported that Angelina Jolie had filed for divorce from Brad Pitt. Together for over a decade and married for two…

How to deal with Wedding Mayhem

By Francine & Byron Pirola | September 21, 2016

Weddings these days are fraught with stress for engaged couples. Dealing with family expectations, full-time jobs and a wedding industry on the make are some…

Why is forgiveness so hard?

By Francine & Byron Pirola | September 11, 2016

In this Year of Mercy, there’s lots of talk about forgiving: God’s expansive forgiveness and our own obligation to forgive others. We get it. It’s…

Mating Market – Sheila Shortages and Man Droughts

By Francine & Byron Pirola | September 6, 2016

In the modern Mating Market every one is a loser. When it comes to love and the quest to find a life-long mate, it is…

How to Help a Marriage in Trouble

By Francine & Byron Pirola | August 29, 2016

Over our years as a married couple we’ve had numerous occasions when people have approached us about their troubled marriage. It hasn’t always been in…

Making the most of single life

By Francine & Byron Pirola | August 22, 2016

Many people see single life as the opportunity to have some fun and ‘live it up’ before they ‘settle down’ to marriage. In fact, some…

Avoiding the Divorce Flu

By Francine & Byron Pirola | August 19, 2016

A new study has documented what counsellors have observed for years: divorce is contagious. Just like a virus, divorce spreads among social networks and influences…

Know What You Want

By Francine & Byron Pirola | August 8, 2016

Part 3 of It Takes One to Tango Perhaps you’ve heard the saying: Failure to plan is a plan to fail. So many people fail…

Do Something Different

By Francine & Byron Pirola | July 27, 2016

Part 5 of It Takes One to Tango Too often people don’t think or act ‘sanely’ when it comes to their marriage problems. Picture this…

Passion and domesticity

By Francine & Byron Pirola | July 14, 2016

One of the greatest challenges couples face in our contemporary age is the presumption of sexual excitement. When the romance wanes, marriages are at risk –…

Mercy Gospel Reflection: Jul 17

By Derek & Karen Boylen | July 12, 2016

  Gospel Reflections for Married Couples 17 July – 16th Sunday in Ordinary Time In this week’s Gospel, we hear the challenging story of Martha and Mary.…

Knot Yet! #5: Responsibility Phobia

By Francine & Byron Pirola | July 6, 2016

What comes first, maturity or the responsibility? In the world of adultescence, the absence of the necessity to be responsible, delays maturity. Most of us…

Mercy Gospel Reflection: Jul 10

By Derek & Karen Boylen | July 5, 2016

  Gospel Reflections for Married Couples 10 July – 15th Sunday in Ordinary Time In this week’s Gospel, we hear Jesus’s parable of the Good Samaritan in…

Mercy Gospel Reflection: Jul 3

By Derek & Karen Boylen | June 28, 2016

  Gospel Reflections for Married Couples 3 July – 14th Sunday in Ordinary Time In this week’s Gospel, Jesus sends forth the seventy-two disciples, in pairs, to…

Mercy Gospel Refection: June 26

By Derek & Karen Boylen | June 21, 2016

  Gospel Reflections for Married Couples 26 June – 13th Sunday in Ordinary Time This week’s Gospel ends with the words of Jesus, “Once the hand…