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Practical wisdom, faith-filled insights, and real-world relationship advice for couples at every stage. Our blog offers practical tools and Catholic perspectives to help you love smarter. Explore topics including communication, fertility, forgiveness, spirituality, parenting, and more — authored by Francine & Byron Pirola and other guest contributers.

The Disciplined Pursuit of Less

By Francine & Byron Pirola | August 30, 2014

In a Stanford Business School talk, author Greg McKeown reflects on what holds capable, driven people from breaking through to the next level. He says…

A Marriage to Remember

By Francine & Byron Pirola | August 29, 2014

My mother, Pam White, has had a full life. In her 67 years she has raised three children, enjoyed a rewarding career as a social…

My Partner Hates My Job!

By Dr. Gregory Popcak | August 28, 2014

Gregory K. Popcak, Ph.D., MSW.  Finding a balance between work and relationships is a challenge for everyone, but what if you and your partner disagree…

Sleeping with a different woman every night

By Francine & Byron Pirola | August 17, 2014

Married life is many things but it is never boring! When we are talking about marriage to high school students invariably some guy at the…

My Many Marriages

By Francine & Byron Pirola | August 10, 2014

We all understand that our marriages go through their ups and downs, but we often don’t appreciate that they also go through fundamental changes over…

How Porn Kills Great Sex in Marriage

By Francine & Byron Pirola | July 24, 2014

According to Sam Black of Covenant Eyes, there are four fundamental ways that pornography undermines marital sex. Contrary to expectations, porn won’t make you a…

Conscious Uncoupling Debunked

By Francine & Byron Pirola | July 11, 2014

When Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin announced their intention to ‘consciously uncouple’ last month, the twitter-sphere went crazy. Not only is a Hollywood bust up…

A Fine Romance?

By Dr. Gregory Popcak | July 10, 2014

Re-posted with permission by Dr. Gregory Popcak Alexis and Jake have been married 11 years. They have three kids, two jobs, one dog and a whole…

Save a marriage for $200

By Francine & Byron Pirola | July 8, 2014

In July, the Federal Government’s pilot ‘relationship voucher scheme’ comes into effect. The trial period has budgeted for 100,000 couples to receive a $200 voucher…

What my girly novels taught me about love

By Agi Reefman | July 2, 2014

Selected from Agi Reefman’s blog: New Hope Talks When I wrote this post I was eyeball deep in some heavy theology. Seeing as my brain…

Modest is NOT Hottest

By Guest Author | June 17, 2014

(Blog article by Natasha Craig, posted June 1, 2014) Growing up in a materialistic world is a challenge, I won’t sugar coat it. Pretty much…

Have you been lied to? Part I

By Agi Reefman | June 10, 2014

Re-posted with permission by Agi Reefman Last week on my blog post, one person asked the question, “What’s this lie you’re talking about?” It was an…

Serial Dating or Smart Dating?

By Francine & Byron Pirola | June 2, 2014

Why is it that as a society we only get serious about saving a marriage when it is under threat of ending? What might happen…

Partner Selection

By Francine & Byron Pirola | May 22, 2014

How do you know what to look for in a romantic partner? One young woman liked to tell us she had three simple criteria for…

Video: Look Up

By Francine & Byron Pirola | May 6, 2014

Such a powerful reminder to truly connect with people on a human level and leave behind the mediocre. Technology connects us, yet we are more…