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Practical wisdom, faith-filled insights, and real-world relationship advice for couples at every stage. Our blog offers practical tools and Catholic perspectives to help you love smarter. Explore topics including communication, fertility, forgiveness, spirituality, parenting, and more — authored by Francine & Byron Pirola and other guest contributers.

Two of Us: Our Commitment

By Two of Us Series | July 8, 2013

A couple exercise to explore your level of commitment Reflect Separately, say the prayer and spend some time reflecting on the questions. Write some notes so…

Video: What is Love?

By Francine & Byron Pirola | July 5, 2013

For one of the most potent and touching portrayals of love….enjoy!  

Spiritual Intimacy

By Francine & Byron Pirola | July 3, 2013

It is often difficult for a couple to share their personal faith experiences with each other. This is so for couples of different faith traditions,…

Two of Us: Sex and Sexuality

By Two of Us Series | July 1, 2013

A couple exercise to explore love making and sexual atmosphere Reflect Separately, say the prayer and spend some time reflecting on the questions. Write some notes…

Video: A Tale of Two Brains

By Francine & Byron Pirola | June 28, 2013

Listen to Mark Gungor explain the differences between the male and female brains in this hilarious talk   Click here for the full 72min presentation…

The Language of Love

By Francine & Byron Pirola | June 26, 2013

Natural fertility methods promote an attitude of shared responsibility for your fertility management and family planning decisions. The process of learning about your fertility and…

Two of Us: Patterns Between Us

By Two of Us Series | June 24, 2013

Understanding and working with our imperfect relationship. Reflect Separately, say the prayer and spend some time reflecting on the questions. Write some notes so that you…

Take Five: Making a Change for the Better

By Francine & Byron Pirola | June 21, 2013

Change is difficult. It can also be complicated. Despite our best intentions, sustained change often eludes us. We’ve had many spouses tell us that their…

Two of Us: Planning and Working Together

By Two of Us Series | June 17, 2013

What is our plan? How are we achieving it together? Reflect Separately, say the prayer and spend some time reflecting on the questions. Write some notes…

Video: It’s Not about the Nail

By Francine & Byron Pirola | June 14, 2013

Just listen – stop fixing! A hilarious video… Video: Inspiring True Story Video: Fathers Day #17 Accompanying The Abandoned Video: I Forgot My Phone Hear…

Take Five: The Art of Apology

By Francine & Byron Pirola | June 13, 2013

Sadly many couples don’t actually know how to apologise and reconcile when they’ve hurt their spouse. People think that it’s obvious, or that it should…

Two of Us: Member of the Faithful

By Two of Us Series | June 11, 2013

What role do I play as a Catholic in the world? Reflect Separately, say the prayer and spend some time reflecting on the questions. Write some…

Cohabitation #5: A Trial Marriage?

By Francine & Byron Pirola | June 7, 2013

Cohabitating couples are often defensive about their lifestyle insisting that they are just as committed as a married couple. We continue the discussion here in…

Cohabitation #4: Commitment Discrepancy

By Francine & Byron Pirola | June 6, 2013

Although cohabitation is now the norm, research demonstrates that this practice is counter-productive in its impact on the future marriage. Rather than enhancing it, cohabitation…

Two of Us: Changes

By Two of Us Series | June 4, 2013

  Reflect Separately, say the prayer and spend some time reflecting on the questions. Write some notes so that you can share more fully with your…