Love Needs and Busters

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Falling in love is a conversion experience. Most of us start out as self-centred individuals and suddenly find ourselves caring more about someone else’s happiness than we do our own. Whatever may have been the initial attraction, in order to love with an authentic other-centred love we need to know the other; to really understand…

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A Marriage in Trouble

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Stepping Out of the Blender: The Keys of Successful Blended Families Chuck and Melinda were both married and divorced before meeting each other.  Married to each other for 5 years, they have two step-children between them. Chuck’s son from his previous marriage primarily lives with his mother, but comes to stay one night a week…

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Pope Francis Marrying Sinners Is No Surprise

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Last month Pope Francis seemed to shock the world by marrying twenty couples in a ceremony at St Peter’s Basilica. Aside from the fact that Popes don’t get the opportunity to preside at weddings all that often, what provided the real shock value was that amongst the couples, some had cohabited, one had a child…

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Abstinence

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                It’s easy for parents to despair of teaching their kids abstinence.  According to the Alan Guttmacher Institute (the research arm of Planned Parenthood), 70% of teens will have had vaginal intercourse by the time they are 19 and the average age of teens’ first sexual encounter is…

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Why Marriages Fail

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Why Marriages Fail:  And How to Make Sure Yours Doesn’t Allan and Jen asked me to do some marriage preparation counseling with them. Both Catholics, and both from divorced homes, they wanted to know what it takes to “make it.” As Jen explained to me in our first conversation, “Allan and I love each other,…

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The Grandfather Clause

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                Tom and Gina just had their first child, a baby boy named Christopher.  Both Tom and Gina’s parents were overjoyed.  In particular, Karen, Gina’s mom, was especially excited because it was her first grandchild.  She knew it would be an adjustment for Tom and her daughter, so she…

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Anxiety Control

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High Anxiety: Seeking Sanity when the World  Goes Nuts “It’s like a mystery novel around here.”  George explained, frustrated with the corporate restructuring his company was going through.  “…And Then There Were None.”                 George’s company was facing layoffs.  Every day, he came into work to find that yet another colleague had gotten the axe. …

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Overcoming Anger

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Aaaaaaaarrrrrggg! Overcoming Anger  Gregory K. Popcak, Ph.D.    But let everyone be quick to hear, slow to speak and slow to anger for the anger of man does not achieve the righteousness of God.  James 1:19-20.               “I just lost it.”  Said Aaron, 43, discussing a situation that led…

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